The founder of Redwood Counseling (2018), Tobias is a licensed clinical social worker with 22 years of experience building and offering mental health programs for children and adults in the Inland Empire. Tobias works extensively with depression, anxiety, substance use, and high conflict child custody cases.

In addition to serving on a Riverside County crisis psychiatric team (2000-2005), Tobias is the author of A New Way to Win: How to Resolve Your Custody Dispute Without Giving Up, Giving In or Going Broke. Tobias married his college sweetheart (together 36 years). They have 3 kids together, and live in Temecula.